I mean, you get PAID to take vacation days... TAKE THEM, YOU WORKAHOLICS! You can plan a day around your town/city/state: go to museums, amusement parks, carnivals, attractions, etc. Eat out at every meal or make meals together at home. (note: only do this if it will NOT be stressful for you. if you have a husband like mine that likes to supervise in the kitchen, keep him busy with something else! I like to keep him busy at the grill while I prepare everything else in the kitchen.) Go out for coffee with your spouse or do date night during the evening while you get a house sitter--go out AFTER your little one goes to sleep! Do things you enjoyed before kids: for us, we loved grocery shopping or running errands together. But whatever it is, you just have to commit to no nagging and no stress. Lounge in a bikini on your deck if you have to or make some Sangria and wear sunglasses indoors--whatever it takes!
And the BIGGEST plus is that you don't have to pack/take a huge suit case JUST for Isabella, go through airport security huffing and puffing, carry a stroller and monstrous (and seriously, it's a $300 monster) carseat, rent a crib, clean that crib, go through sleepless nights, and worry about nap times.
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On a side note: Isabella has officially taken steps without assitance since Tuesday. Only 2-4 currently but the look on her face is priceless! She looks so proud of herself and she'll speed crawl to you or fall in your lap with a huge look of toothy accomplishment.
Side note II: Isabella attends a private preschool near our house 2x/week. I went to pick her up today and was met with the cutest soon-to-be-big toddler sporting the same leggings I put on her this morning but with a tie-dyed onesie she made that said, "i love mom" and "happy mother's day!". Afterwards, I HAD to go to the grocery store (or anywhere public) just to show it off.
I'm officially a very proud mama.
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